Hello again everyone, first thank you to every one that posts threads and thank you to those with the knowledge to share your wisdom.
My wife moved out two days before Thanksgiving. We have two Children we adopted D4 S3. they are my cousins who lost custody of them. they came to us almost three years ago. we also have three grown children D23, S21, D15. I made a point to hold to NC the minute she left. it has been two weeks and she will text me when she has something to say, or arrange time with the Babies. this past two weeks seems like it has been 2 years. she had to come to the house this morning because we had a home visit from the adoption agency. I stayed away from her, she did not look like herself, she looked worn out and haggard. it kills me to not tell her I love her and I will do what ever I need to get her back. I know that wont work, and only push her away.
up till the point where she made the decision to move out, there was touch and go moments. I know she still loves me and is confused about why she is feeling the way she is. but she will never admit it.
can I get some input on what I should see moving forward. I know I cant have any expectations, or ulterior motives. I know I have to make all the changes for myself. but is it out of line to wonder what other people in my situation seen, as they stood silent?
