Jde, this stuff is difficult. Other than serious health issues, this will be the most difficult thing you will go through.

However, this is not a competition. So what if she appears happy. Do you really think she would let you see if she is unhappy with her choice? It will take a long time before she can admit to herself it was a mistake, let alone to you.

So yes, the answer is to DB. The answer is to put big-boy pants on and not sit and feel sorry for yourself. We had a poster here a few months ago. His W left him for another guy, then took out a TRO on him (by his own admission he punched her car as she drove away). Poor guy would sit and stew in his own juices every night. Then make tons of excuses as to why he couldn't go GAL. I say all the time, that the posters that struggle the worst are the ones that do GAL the worst. So go out and be busy!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018