I'm telling myself I've got NGS pretty badly here. You know what though, I thought thats how a dad operates. Self sacrifice, putting his family first. Feeling his wifes feelings. Letting go of his edge and being a family man. I'm still going to tackle some sides of NGS but really they arent bad. I've had multiple women in the past few months tell me I seemed confident, and am attractive and thats not from me pulling compliments from them. Maybe I'm beating myself up too much and really my wife was too jaded, hurt, resentful to see what others see. Onward to my plan and continued self improvement.
Core, this tells me that you have no idea what NGS is.
And saying "people tell me all the time...." is a HUGE sign of NGS. NGS looks to be nice, and do the right thing, to get other people to like you. It is fake being nice. Read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. It does the best job of explaining what NGS, and how to stop it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
