First, I am not a fan of the term "exit affair". The majority of the time an affair is a symptom of deeper problems in a marriage. Most of the other cases are a character flaw in the cheating spouse. In the first case, the OP is simply the excuse or catalyst the WAS needed to step out of the MR that they were already unhappy with.
Your husband is wayward. He may or may not be in an A. He may or may not be having a MLC.
The good news is that none of those changes the approach you should take. GAL. 180s. and detach. Please read all of cadet's links. There is gold in the reading there. Have you read DR? Get it and read it.
Remember, you cannot control him. It only takes one spouse to end a marriage. So the only thing you have control over is you.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
