Thanks job. I guess the stickler is that she does actually seem so much happier, she is a dressing her issues and childhood trauma, She's gotten fit, lost 3 stone, developed a really strong support network of friends, taking classes, got her finances in order etc etc. I'm far behind her, been completely stuck on wanting to save the marriage. Not sure she is out to lunch because she was unhappy and did something about it. I don't agree it was the right thing but her support network all do.
I know the answer, I think Detach Grow Learn
Jdevast Why do you think she has done all of these things? I would like to get everyone else's opinion you're on this as well the vets. I enjoy hearing different perspectives outside of the obvious that they weren't happy.
IMO... it's Jdevast's perception / mind reading. She is also GAL-ing, but you don't know how she's actually feeling internally.
I'm GAL-ing and whenever my WW sees me, she says I'm doing stuff and moving on, but she doesn't know that I'm still struggling and surviving inside. I've spent more time with old friends mainly for support that I need. I've lost more weight from stress than working out. So it's quite possibly the case for your wife too.
