I've been separated and out of apt. for 6 weeks. I feel my W thinks she is a failure as well. She's carries alot of childhood baggage that she is going to a C for. Issues like almost put up for adoption, mom stepdad alcholics and lot of fights, dad in and out of her life, rape, abortion. Help??? I am the only thing other than her g-ma that has ever been stable and dhe will admit that but is ready to D cuz we argue about everday things to much??? I stupidly in anger last summer said D in a couple real argument we were having and know I think she is trying to get out b4 I can hurt her but w/ all other baggage in the way she can't see I would never leave she and our 2 year old daughter are my life. Divoted H that will never give up on family but very down and depressed that this would ever happen. out of nowhere she can't forgive even though I thought this was forgiven last summer. Do I let her figure out her baggage????? Any advice would be great.
