OMG I’m doing it again. Still trying to find an easy way to fix this. Yes another man will solve all my problems. Right. Ok I’m done for now. Back to learning how to make myself happy. Disregard my last posts. Lol
Why do we do this? Why do we put more effort into filling a void out of loneliness or boredom instead of strength and character building with time, effort, experience, and emotional growth? Nevermind the OP, Nevermind the WAW, WAH, people are right here. If your not GALing, you're not changing. If you are not changing, you are not growing, if you are not growing, if you are not growing, you are complacent and bored with your own life. You are thinking about what was, over and over to find the meaning you assign to it to learn and drill into your emotions, your personna, and your logic, the mistakes you made the mistakes the made the actions you took the actions they took, what can be forgiven but not forgotten, and what can't. Taking the time learning all this stuff makes things so much more complicated, but helps you see things for what they really are in modern relationships. Your mistakes, you're perception, your worth, your value, your character, your growth, your emotional and financial well being, your mindset, your wants, needs, desires. Comorbidies like co dependency and the like. It almost makes you wonder? Why take vows in the first place if everything is conditional, is based off attraction, needs, wants, value, desires, fantasies, experience, hurt, heal, etc. Why take vows that are only honored and enforced only when they serve you. Something to think about. But once all this sinks in after the well needed time for introspection. It becomes perfectly clear that when you can put your emotional turmoil aside for the time being and shift your focus to you. That is when your life starts and opens up expoenently. Its just a matter if getting there and staying with the process. Im sure there is more I can think of on the subject. Have to get to work. Love hearing what a lot of you guys and gals have to say. Really keeps me in check with my perspective.
