I worry that most of the single, older men in my area are fat.
We have a running group here in my town that meets every Thursday. The older guys I see running are not fat, most do not smoke. If you lived here, I would say go to that event.
If you do want a fat guy, there is a biker bar I can recommend.
I guess my point is, when it is time, put yourself in the right environment,.
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