Okay this is going to be incredibly needy and pathetic. My self esteem has taken a beating since WAH already has someone. That was a serious blow to my ego.

I'm not ready to date I just want to know I CAN if that makes sense? I also want to know if there are men out there that look and are decent. Anyway until I can be happy alone I need to stay away from men. Okay I'm 53, somewhat attractive. I can turn a few heads in my age bracket I put in the effort. I'm tall, thin and athletic. I'm an outgoing introvert and quick witted. I love men, all types of men. My deal breakers are obesity, smoking or any other addiction. I worry that most of the single, older men in my area are fat.