No concrete evidence of EA/PA at this point but I'm assuming she has been with someone else based on her actions after BD and this summer.
Originally Posted by jac12
.however, as far as I know there is no OM. .
I see the two statements above contradicting. You tell us that there is enough smoke that you assume there is a fire. Then you say there is no fire. The unanswered questions are when did the fire start, and how long has it been burning.
In other words, was your wife involved in a secrete affair before BD and is it still going on?
If the answer is no, then let go of any OM thoughts. Db your butt off.
If the answer is yes, then DB your butt off.
If the answer is , I don't know. Then DB your butt off.
The only difference is where you set boundaries.
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