Married 28 years, 3 teenagers, H moved out 8 months ago

I filed for D three weeks ago because he's isn't paying me enough support and I found out there is OW. I don't talk to him anymore and haven't heard from my attorney yet so I don't know where I am in this process. I live in a true fault state so I had to file with grounds (adultery). If I don't have grounds he doesn't have to give me a D until he's ready to do so. We have a no fault D in my state but both spouses have to agree to it. If his attorney is smart she'd tell him to wait me out but with grounds he can't. Its super easy to stall all you have to do is say "I don't want a D". Stalling is in his best interest because in 2 years S19 will be 21 and age out of CS.

Back soon - I have questions but I need to get some work done first.

Last edited by job; 12/09/19 11:05 PM. Reason: Merged two threads together.