R2C - Whether I'm there or not my son will be there for dinner as he'll be with me Christmas eve and morning. I would like to go but I just wonder if that plays into her having her cake and eating it too...however, as far as I know there is no OM.

Unchien - you are correct, I won't initiate any R talk. I'll take a few days to think it over and then make a decision. My W and I should be having a chat about Christmas plans anyhow as it relates to our son. From your expectation comment: you're right I guess I do have expectations that if I go it means we are moving in a better direction. Otherwise, I'd rather spend time with my family. I suppose her inviting me to dinner can't be seen as a negative thing. It can be neutral and maybe that's ok too.

Anyways - I'll think it over and make a decision.

Thanks.

H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019