Steve85, I hear you. The thing is nothing else is having any affect 2-3 months in. It did go as well as expected, making her mad. Which I get.
Still going down the path of letting her go, and thinking those links were my last resort. She is free to start mediation. I haven't news on that end. I helped our toddler, baby in their morning routine, watched W play with them, all having a good time. Hows a man supposed to let this all go without fighting to the bone to protect it.
Your WAS is a cat. You cannot make a cat come to you. That is their nature. All you can do is pretend you don't care and eventually the cat will wonder why you aren't pursuing them and come to you. Give her time and space. Let her go to get her back. Sending her pro-marriage links is the opposite of that and has approaching a 0.00000000001% chance of having a positive effect.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
