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In return she wrote back to me last week, underlining that she ‘can’t carry on anymore’ and ‘she doesn’t want to try’.


That's how she feels right now. Time will tell. You give up when you're ready to give up, not when someone else is.

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However, W sent me an email about how we spend Christmas and when I want to attend Mediation to start the process of disentanglement.
Let her figure out how she wants to do it. If she wants divorce, she can do the heavy lifting to get it going.

Are you OK with a mediator? Have you previously agreed to this?

Why did you go to the spare bedroom?

How bad were your cyclical arguments and how passionate were you guys at your best?

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.