When I joined this site more than 21 months ago, I could only think of 1 thing: Reconciliation with my W.
I read everything available about MLC, WW, WAW, etc. I was desperate.
And I was convinced that I could wait as long as it takes and do whatever it takes to save my MR. Like most people here, I read that MLC takes 2 to 7 years on average and that most MLCs tend to be on the longer side of that range. I read that the S that leaves seldom returns before 2 years if they ever return.
I thought that I would wait.
But 2 years is awfully long and so many changes happen during that time.
At this point now, I want a new life. I hope my GF will get her D soon and look forward to a new R with her. The worst thing that could happen now is my XW wanting to come back. I don’t think I’d want to be back with her, but wouldn’t want to be put in a position to say No.
Things change and we change. Life is good and we can be happy without our WAS/MLCer
Last edited by kiro; 12/09/1903:05 PM.
Me:49 XW:41, M:18 years, Kids: S18,S14 BD:JULY 2017, W moved out: DEC 2017 Filed for D: APR 2019, D Final: JULY 2019
