Friends: Season 3--Expanding and thriving

[SadBurl]

Ok my last post probably didn't make a lot of sense because it was about days ago. I've been catching up.
The thread has been wonderful.

Betsy your letter it was beautiful and made me take stock of my sitch and think about things. I hope you get the answer you truly deserve.

The OP debate: I have called OW a lot of things and some to H face (which just made him defend her, me get madder, him defend her etc etc Get the picture)Most of the time I try not to think about her but Now although I don't like her or the tricks she pulled I feel sorry for her. H is treating her even worse than he treated me and well it is only a matter of time.

Lying: H does this so much too. I agree with someone who said it was to protect them from hurt I think H is guilty of that too but I would rather know the truth. I now know when he is lying and I intend to say please no lies or else we'll discuss something else. Maybe then he wont get mad and gradually stop lying.

PamelaC yo said New plan of attack? Make H realize that he is not a failure, I am not a failure, and our relationship does not need to fail. We are simply two people that made mistakes and have learned from them.
This plan sounds good to me.

Keep up these great debates and I will follow suite.

God bless
Joanne