Well the weekend went well. She came to my game and asked me to go eat with her and my son. We argued somewhat and I said some mean things to her in front of our son. She walked out and went home. She feels like I’ve turned my son against her and made a valid point about mentioning her cheating in front of him. I know I shouldn’t have done that but he already knows.

She is adamant about seeing a counselor and wants our son to see one as well. I still think she wants us to see a counselor so that we can have a smooth divorce. She claims it would be to work on our relationship regardless of what happens in our marriage.

I stuck to my guns and said we can’t have a relationship as long as there is a 3rd person involved. She claims this is only about us and not anyone else. She is just angry and wants us to work on our relationship before we actually split.

I told her I didn’t need to see a counselor until she was sure she knew for sure she wanted to be married and was not in contact with the OM.