Originally Posted by Core
I ask her to initiate mediation so I keep my moral boundaries intact
Do not put any power into her hands. When YOU decided you want mediation, you initiate. Worry about this later.

Originally Posted by Core
I continue to take MBR
Personally, I believe you should sleep in the biggest room in the nicest bed EVERY NIGHT. D4 should be in the other room. S1 should be in your room until a certain age. Do some research into this. Lean on the experts.

Let W choose where she sleeps.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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