Right now, she's living on the high of euphoria. They all do. They think that life is rosy and the sky is going to be sunny each and every day. Unfortunately after about 6 months, the real world will come knocking at her door and then she will begin to realize that even though she's left you, her problems will still exist. She still have to clean, cook wash, shop, work a job and pay her bills. Life isn't all about tip toeing through the tulips.

For now, you will need to find a way to accept that she's gone and out to lunch. Sure she's happy at the moment, but that can and most likely will change in time. You, on the other hand, will grow by leaps and bounds because you are facing your situation head on and not looking for other avenues to make you feel better.

Dig deeper for patience and keep the focus on you. Leave her to her own mess.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.