Originally Posted by Core
Starsky about fighting for the R for 3-4 months..... Maybe I should still be fighting, still having the R chats.
Starsky is a wise DBer. Heed his advise.

Please do not confuse fighting (or standing) for your marriage with engaging in (or more specifically initiating) R chats.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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