I didnt have an R talk but i asked why her CC bill was high as our account is low in funds and if she purchased a phone as she was hinting at buying one in the past. She got angry, disrespectful and defensive. I validated where I could. She told me shes no longer buying presents for my family so I can control the finances which I didnt ask for. She assured me that a "phone or anything else I'm suspecting" didnt get purchased. I asked her what she meant by that and she said it's to clarify anything I may be thinking.
Time to go dark in my own house? I have no plan, my hands are tied. I guess I schedule mediation and see if she goes? Or am i supposed to let this EA continue for weeks, months, years until she makes a move?
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
