Slow and Steady

[Jac12]

As noted above things have been better since I got back from Florida about 3 weeks ago. Tomorrow is also the year anniversary of BD.

But this past week she went 3 full days without reaching out and at least asking how our son is doing...this is similar to how things were before Florida and I just got used to it. But we were talking a bit every day since I got back, usually her initiating. I did invite her to join us Friday at a playdate for our son and she said she may come but then she never even texted to say she wasnt' going to make it.

I did give her a call Thursday morning to check in on how she was feeling (she's been a bit sick) and to see how her new job was working out. I wonder if this made her pull away again.

Anyways - I'm just trying to be aware of what's working and what's not without reading too much into anything. I want to see what her actions show. And right now her actions make me feel like the things she told me a couple of weeks ago weren't genuine. She's yet to start counselling and she certainly isn't asking to spend time with me. However, she is staying for a bit after our son goes to bed on the nights she's here, and that is a new thing since BD. Anyways, Michelle says to look for small signs of thawing and I feel like I've seen some but I'm also worried I'm being played and it is more to do with our son than it is with me.

Am I overreacting to three days?