Sounds like a H3llish living arrangement, much like ‘nesting’, The one family I knew who chose nesting, it initially assuaged the ex-wife’s guilt that she was harming the kids, but it was horrible for the ex-husband, who kept finding used condoms in the trash. You, in contrast, may actually hear the noises from these other partners.
A clean no-contact break, imho, makes it much easier to move on. I wouldn’t humor her fantasy.
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