Job, Hawho, DnJ, Ownit -- What a good good good thing for this little soul to see all your messages about the transition issue and about my b-day. I am feeling very low tonight because D did mention more as the night went on. I was at a spa thing my father gave me,came back feeling so good and took D and her best friend home, where they came to my room to tell me that the other woman was there the whole time and and slept over last night. Our custody agreement says that is not allowed. (The weird thing is I would never have thought of that issue going into the agreement but H actually put it in!)
So it was a real lift to see all your messages. I am going to read them all now but will start a new thread because Job said mine might get locked. I will respond in the new thread. Thank you so much, Everyone.