Good work on picking out those positives U. Stretching a little lol.
My interpretation is no more valid than yours. I was just demonstrating how easy it is to reframe things (if you want).
You can interpret whatever she says (or texts) an infinite number of ways. "Believe none of what they say..." Moreover, WAS's will change their feelings and minds all the time. Detach from the emotional roller-coaster.
Originally Posted by Jdevast
Difficulty is more people she voices this to, the harder it is to turn around.
Maybe. Is this a useful thought?
J, I have been (and still am) in a needy place as well. The more you can recognize that feeling, the more you can get a handle on it and not be at the whim or her (or your) emotions. This stuff is hard, it takes time. The biggest mistakes I have made in DB are when I have let my emotions control my actions and thoughts.
