Quote: A writer was asked in an interview if she didn't feel angry at the woman who had stolen her husband, and she replied -
"Stolen? What? Is my husband a piece of candy, to be stolen????"
Exactly!
Briget, I gave your robbery anology a lot of thought. And, I understand where you are coming from on that. However, it was not as if the items in your house had a choice as to whether or not they wanted to be "taken."
I really hate being on the other side of the fence on this with you! I respect you so much, and I guess I have a hard time not being an "arfer" to you! Your pain is fresh, so I totally understand. Even so, you may always feel this way. I can respect that. That's what makes this world great. We are all entitled to our feelings and opinions. I don't think there is a "right" or a "wrong" here. I just feel that you cannot totally forgive the spouse if you are holding on to the anger to the OP.
Kitti, I know it's hard to say the things you did in your post. You gave people a lot to think about from a different perspective.
