Hi Jdevast, My take - her text can mean any number of things and only one person truly knows what it meant. Is she letting others know that she is truly done or (don't want to give you false hope) is she reminding herself of such. What I think is good, is either her friends are asking about your R or she is talking about your R in at least a non hateful light. If she knew you might see the message it may be manipulation or control. With my sitch, my counselor told me to stop trying to read in to these things if it just causes pain. Same may work for you but easier said then done. Sorry you had to read and feel that text. Stay strong, sounds like you are a solid pillar for your D.
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated