Would it be better then to not invite him when I plan on taking the kids some place then? I invited him with us today and he said yes but when we got here he went with our oldest and I am with the rest in different parts of the building. He is definitely a have my cake and eat it too person now. He is living at home and gets to play family with the kids well seeing her at work and still saying he wants a divorce in 6 months. Would it also be better to ask him to stay at his friend's so a while so he can see what it would be like, or at this point that wouldn't make a difference. He seems to not care when I am out at all because that is what he wants and before this I would do my own things because he never wanted to come. What about asking if he wants to come Christmas shopping with me I had planned to do it any ways and when I mentioned it the other day he said he is fine with things like as friends
