For what it's worth, I got the accusations of "emotional abuse" and so on, too. Pretty soon she'll tell you that you are a narcissist who only cares about yourself. As others have suggested, IC is good, will help to keep you level. Feedback is a gift that you should always accept with grace... and sometimes drop in the garbage can. We all make mistakes, have our low moments where we say things we regret. It's just an excuse for her to justify her behavior.
M(35), W(35), D(4) M-9, T-12 Bomb Drop (D announcement) - May 3, 2019 W moved out Aug 13 House sold Sept 25 Papers signed Nov 15 Divorce finalized Dec 12
