Than you thank you. I agree with both of you. It’s tough. Here’s the other part- I feel like I’ve finally gotten ex off my back a little bit. I’ve been 99.9999999% no contact except for dog issues and it’s rare to have to even discuss the dog.
If I put in the abortion, he will flip his lid. I don’t need to poke the bear. He can’t have anyone know that he’s not the innocent golden boy he portrays himself to be.
I don’t care about the minimal $ that would be reimbursed. In fact, I would pay NOT to awaken the beast. And I don’t need him thinking that I care about him at all.... he would definitely think I called him out, out of spite.
I am making up how the next steps will go... I hope I’m not right. But I see this ending with us going to trial, then him selling the house. He will move away because nothing is keeping him here and his MO is to cut and run... and he will try to take the dog with him.
I say that, because those are the chess moves that he will take to ensure he tries to (Appear to) win. I won’t say more than that but that would 100% be the next play in his playbook. I hope he proves me wrong.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16