Just curious to hear from others if there was a singular day they can pinpoint that the switch just flipped like it did in my case.
It has been about 10 years, but I remember lots of different switches flipping. Getting to the forgiveness switch and wishing her happiness is your goal. Unconditionally loving someone that has hurt you soo bad is a great switch to flip.
Keep moving toward that goal.
I forgive her. I wish her all the happiness in the world, because I need her to be happy for our S4. I just don't want to be any part of it.