You are the only that can determine when you've had enough and need to file. You have a necessary need to file because of the financial situation. As for the ow, she's nothing more than a band aid to his issues. I do understand how you feel about the ow and what your h has and is continuing to do.
When making decisions, please make those decisions from a place of calm and not when you are angry and/or hurt. It is important that you now look at this relationship as a business deal that has soured.
Job,
Thank you so much for this. I'm always happy when veterans post on my thread.
You're right I was going to have to file regardless of the OW. She was just a straw. Saturday I got the 2nd check from WAH confirming that he wasn't going to increase support like he said he would. Monday I find out about the OW. I wasn't completely surprised by either of these events. Tuesday morning in total calmness I made the decision to D him. On Wednesday I found about the promotion.
I can't look at this as a business deal but my attorney can.
