Want probably isn’t the right word. I don’t think anyone here wants a D. From what I’ve read it’s not uncommon for the LBS to file after they’re done with limbo. There is this line in the sand and it’s different for everyone. For me it was a combination of finances and the OW. I thought he was an honorable man and to find out he isn’t that person anymore means well to quote AS there isn’t anything to stand for now. My marriage is over. I can either prolong my pain by holding out hope that the man I married will come back or I can walk away with my dignity in tact.
I’m still worried I won’t move on until I’m in another relationship but I’m trying to have faith that I will be ok on my own.
I am at peace with my decision to go through with the D.
