H did tell me yesterday he is going to be late (again) paying for his part of the phone bill, and the internet, which is the only utility in his name at our house. But, he shows up with a new car, and new clothes....I can cover it and he knows it, but I am tired of his unilateral decisions affecting me, too. I think I may bring this up in MC because I do feel taken advantage of in regards to him knowing I am financially secure on my own.
