Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by Zip
.....okay.....so is this because i am not signing a doc I dont need to sign,....or are you going to criminally charge me because i had some pictures of you without your permission?
This is all about money. You have a business to split up. You want to do it as cheap as possible for your family without you getting screwed over. Do not quibble over the little things.

List out the big items:

401K Value (Tax implications)
House equity value (Not easily liquidated)
$250K in hidden cash by wife
Land value



the large items will be the sticking spots Unfortunately there is everything above involved. I think if we can get this done while she has a desire to go, it may be beneficial to both parties. Get it done now and not drag on. There is an incentive on her behalf if she really wants to go. Otherwise we can snuggle up the the checkbooks and Ls for the next how many months or yrs.


Me 58 W 58
T 36 yrs. M 32 yrs
D 27 D 23
BD 8/3/19
Waiting for filing from W