Thanks a lot for the advice! I must be very naive but I genuinely believe I can change and so our relationship so hopefully in the future we can have a chance. Even talking about the children is proving challenging. She keeps blaming me, she sounds angry all the time on the phone and keeps saying she has nothing to talk to me even when I call to schedule picking up the children
This DBing is the hardest thing ever, some days I feel she really wants to brake me and there is no chance for a R but other days I feel her anger can indicate there are feelings I can bring back.
The move to Madrid is of course for the children but right now she only wants my visits to stick to our agreement, again I do not recognize the woman I married. She knows I am in our hometown for a month now, maybe she has a revelation of some kind and lets me see her, the expectation is of course not.
I am reading now DB and wanted to ask, would you guys recommend telephone IC with DB? I was thinking about getting three sessions as a trial. Thanks a lot and lets stay as a lighthouse!
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19