Keeping very busy over the next few days. Kind of crucial to keep my brain occupied as Christmas was always a romantic time for W and I, especially in our house. Setting up the tree, putting the decorations out, meals out etc.
Tonight - gym, plus my sister is coming over to help me tidy up my parents' bathroom (parents are out til Monday on a trip away so we thought we'd surprise them). Saturday - watching 2 shows in London - a musical matinee performance, then a symphony concert in the evening. Sunday - Gig. Clearly people need me to play for them! This one is nice as it's an afternoon gig so I'll be home by early evening to make my own dinner. I can finally cook with chilli and garlic (my parents hate it so their food is always quite bland!).
Noticed there was a mistake on the form that W filled in. I've asked her to check it.
My mum has decided she will send W's parents a card. I said this is absolutely fine - probably for the best, just acting normal. We have agreed that if W's mum rings and asks how I'm doing, my mum will say I'm "fine" and "keeping very busy with work". Should she mention that my IC has finished or that I'm going to the gym a lot? W's mum will probably ask a lot of questions. I'm guessing not - be the 'mysterious' person, you know?
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Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020