M,

Sounds like you are adjusting well. I am sorry this is putting a dent in you financially. I'm not sure of your age but hopefully you have time to make it all back. Keep in mind this is going to take awhile. They don't hurt their children, take on financial risks, disappoint family, burn bridges to come running back in 6 months.

Take this time being single and enjoy it. Keep your head up and what's going be is going to be.

Stay strong my friend.