I just want to shake her and tell her to get it together. Work on the marriage and embrace the beautiful family and life she has!
Focus on things you can control. You can't control other people. You can control your words, behaviors, actions, thoughts. The more you try to control, the more she will resist.
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This is huge Scott, I know that urge very well. And it’s crappy because you know your right. But R2C is right. What can YOU change? If you try to persuade her you will push her further away
