I'm so glad you were able to understand what I was trying to say!
Oh, and just to clarify, I now firmly believe that Amanda is just young/naive/ditzy. She doesn't realize how her actions LOOK.
In fact, here's a recent example.
Husband was at his Mother's house, taking care of Little Brother.
Amanda called him up there and asked him if she could crash.
He said, "That wouldn't be appropriate!" ( When he told me about this, I was so astonished and I showered him with kisses! I told him he was my hero. He was surprised that I thought it was a big deal!)
She asked why it wouldn't be appropriate.
He said, "Amanda, you are having a blond moment. First of all, I'm married...second of all, it's my Mother's House."
So, that's why I'm not mad at her...she's just clueless.
IF he and she had had an affair...you can bet I'd have been furious with her as well as him! (Well, heck, this whole time I thought I was furious with her...that is, until I had that insight on Sunday!)
When he told me about this, I was so astonished and I showered him with kisses! I told him he was my hero. He was surprised that I thought it was a big deal!)
