kas, did you file for D because you want to be D'd? Or did you do it to try to wake him up?
It's financial and he will go through with it. He wants a D he just doesn't want to pay for it.
I don't want to D but I live in a true fault state. Without grounds (adultery) he doesn't have to give me a divorce until he wants to and doesn't have to pay me without one. I have to go through with it now.