Thank you KML. I knew her boyfriend would be harder to give up then the drugs. He did not stay single for very long. D16 was shocked to see he did not even try to keep her or even wait to atleast talk. It hit her hard. She got very depressed. She dropped to the floor crying. I kneeled beside her for awhile. Later, i went upstairs to get her a glass of water, a cold cloth and a tylenol as i knew she would have a migraine after crying for so long. While upstairs, i heard 3 loud bang, bang, bang as if she was punching the floor. I returned to her room, offered her some water and she pushed it away. I grabbed the cloth and wiped her neck, face and forehead. She pulled away and said "ouch". Me: oh [censored], you hit your head on the wall!! You have an egg forming on your forehead. I used the glass of water to keep the cloth cold because i did not want to leave her room again. We stayed on the floor for hours.. she cried until she had nothing left. I told her: " come, i' ll help you to get you to your bed. You will cry yourself to sleep. This is what is coming next".
She was drained!! She laid down and finally stopped crying. I left her to rest. After about 30 min., i went to tcheck on her. She was still awake. She asked me if she could go meet a friend of hers later but first, if we could go drive around for her to get some fresh air. Without hesitation, i said yes. We drove around for about 30 min. Then, we went to Tim Horton where she was suppose to meet her friend. She was' nt there.. D16 started crying again. She felt ALONE.. no friends, no boyfriend, no job, nothing. We went back home and she ran to her room where she cried and cried. I did not know what to do anymore. I told her: "Let' s go!, i need to get you out of here. Let' s go see your sisters and brother." Again, she was drained and weak physically. I asked her if she wanted me to take her to the hospital. She said yes. The doctor ( whom i adore ) spent 2 HOURS with us. He spoke to her, to me one on one and to her again. He offered her instant councelling. She refused but he did make her feel better. Once home, she took a bath to relax and went to bed. The next day, we did go visit her sibling.. doctor' s order; reconnect with her family and friends. It got better slowly until Canada day where she did a complete turn around. Thank God!!!
It was very hard.
DNJ, you are probably decorating or gone shopping but i wanted to say thank you and i wish you a very merry Christmas!!!!
Andrew, According to google, you are 7h33 min. from my house. I did not bake anything yet. Shall i wait for you?? Lol
