I totally understand! And, I'm so happy for you!!! I remember so many times reading that the OW is a symptom, and honestly, it went in one ear and out the other. Then, one night, I just "got it." It was such a relief too. I apologized to my H and told him how sorry I was for all the anger. And now, I am to a point where the past is the past and I don't get all crazy thinking about it.
I'm so happy for you, I really am. I know what a burden you've been carrying.
Myrrh, we're here when you're ready to start talking. I know that Betsey and Meredith and I all have had different experiences, so if there is any way I can be of help to you, please ask. Betsey has my e-mail address.
