Originally Posted by ozman
Your definition of detached is I just tell W to take a flying leap and never look back with 0 chance of recon


White = Weak man, behavior with low value = Actively Pursuing, begging, crying, blaming etc

Black = Telling her to take flying F.


We are telling you to be someplace in the grey. Maybe darker grey. Show strong confident high value male behavior. This is learned behavior. In the future, you may have to go lighter grey. The key is the ability to read a sitch and adjust as needed.


How many women have you interacted with this week that found you attractive? I bet zero? How many woman have you found attractive? I bet there were many. You did not even have to interact with them to find them attractive. Us guys are very visual. Woman are attracted to a guys behavior. Same thing, there are areas of grey in the two extremes.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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