I would just take his comments/messages at face value. Don't think too much into it. I've been there too, trying to decipher any little comments/movements that H made and seeing if I could figure anything out. usually there answer is no.
I'm happy for you that you had a great break with the kids. I'm focusing on planning all the fun with my kids for the holidays as well!
I know. I'm trying not to think too much of this stuff, however, we broke up before we were ever married, and he exhibited similar behaviors when he was starting to doubt himself. I suppose that doesn't mean much, but he's definitely following a familiar pattern.
