Quote: is it to when your mate back or is it to become a better person within yourself? michelle never tells us that if we db we get our mates back, remember, we cannot control what our mates do.
Dbing didn't necessarily "save" my M but it did save my sanity!! I have definitely learned that the only behavior I can control is MY OWN!!!!
I am so much better off with myself and with my interactions with STXH thanks to Dbing! The idea of detaching is worth its weight in gold!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
I have definitely learned that the only behavior I can control is MY OWN!!!!
