Lol. Thanks guys. Maybe I’m still not understanding the difference between not caring and detachment. If she would have said no it wouldn’t have bothered me. I just thought it would be nice to extend an invite

As for the other thing. It just makes me feel like a bad person that I might not want to recon

I have told several times that this is a pro marriage site. So how does being detached jive with wanting it to work. Makes no sense to me. Cause I have been told that this is a website for people who want it to work. But then as soon as I express any sort of anything about W I’m told “see a detached person wouldn’t say that”. It seems like that your definition of detached is I just tell W to take a flying leap and never look back with 0 chance of recon

Last edited by ozman; 12/05/19 05:30 PM.

Me 32. W. 30
T 10 years M 8
S 8

Bd 5-31-19