Does anyone have experience were the EA is with a co worker. Does it seem harder to end/lasts longer when they see the person all day every day? Also since he is still living in the house do I say hi or anything when he comes home before he goes down stairs or just let him go?
In general, the EAP is insignificant. The dopamine deluge your H is getting from the EA is why he is addicted. Whether the EAP is in the same house, or half a world away won't dictate the length or strength of the EA. However, focusing on it is a dead-end because you have no control over it.
Be cordial and friendly, but do not initiate contact. If he greets you, greet him cheerfully and happily back. Remember, your goal right now is to back off, and remove all pressure and pursuit.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
