Quote: However, if that's the case - why are we DBin?
i go back to - what is the reason your db'n in the first place? is it to when your mate back or is it to become a better person within yourself? michelle never tells us that if we db we get our mates back, remember, we cannot control what our mates do. she suggests that if we change certain behaivors then there is a good chance that our mates will see these changes, be intrigued by them, and eventually turn back to us. but the changes have to be real
that is all...just wanted to butt into this conversation for a moment
and btw - i have been enjoying this whole discussion on the lying thing ... just another thing i have learned about my interactions with my hubby - thanks
