This part of the process is all about self control. What you feel like doing and what you should do are not in alignment right now. Do not do what you feel like doing. Be like Steve. Fight that urge.
Go read quotes3 and understand how PuppyDogTails would handle this.
There are good and bad ways to handle this. Each of us has different opinions. After reviewing them all, you have a choice to make. You make that choice based on logic. You take the action for that choice and live with the consequences of that choice, good or bad. Waiting is choice. Acting is a choice.
Blend all the behaviors of coach,puppydogtails,robx,allena,gucci,steve85.
Your job is to protect your family from predators. Your job as a man is to lead your W through this most difficult time.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
